#WeAreFetish

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We are a community.

But we don't always behave as one.
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and not only those that are just like you.

This website is meant to be a celebration of diversity. It is about people like you or me: regular people with a fetish. #WeAreFetish will share their stories regularly. Sometimes in the form of an interview, a video, a longform article... If you have an interesting story to share, don't hesitate to reach out through our social media channels. If you like a story: be sure to share it! Finally, you'll also find some things you can do to spread the message. Good luck!

November 05 2023

Interview
Kevin

"We talk to Kevin who likes it Dirty”.

"If you are curious or unsure, if something could work for you or not, it doesn’t cost anything to just try it out or deal with it by watching videos and try out the things you can see there.”

September 27 2022

Interview
Kenzo

"Be the change you wish to see in the world”. We talk to Kenzo Onyx about ABDL.

“As a Black Queer Man, I didn’t see many people who looked like me in kink spaces"

May 27 2022

Interview
Dany Bear

"You never Know what can happen”. We talk to Dany Milan a.k.a Dany Bear.

“Meeting people from other communities is something very interesting, you never know what can happen"

May 17 2022

Interview
Prince

"We become free" "We talk to Damien a.k.a. Prince of Rubber.

“We become free to be people we wouldn't be in daily life.”

October 18 2021

Interview
Ralph

“fetish has no age”. We talk to Ralph about growing in the fetish scene.

“I’m not sure there’s ever going to be a monolithic fetish scene that includes everyone’s identities and desires but I hope we are making a large enough scene to house a multitude of smaller scenes.”

January 7 2022

Interview
Erick

“Furies Fandom". We talk to Erick about Furies Fandom.

“Furry fandom isn't primarily driven by fetishism. Some furries are indeed fetishists but this does not correspond to the majority in my experience.”

july 15 2021

Interview
Bee

“fetish has no gender”. We talk to Bee about inclusion in the fetishscene.”

“I don’t regret pushing boundaries, it was important to create space for everyone, and everyone deserved to be included.”

june 13 2021

Interview
Jinx

“fetish has no color”. We talk to Jinx about life as a young kinkster of color.”

"I’ve had men tell me I’m too black to be in the community and that I deserve to be a slave because I’m African "

September 2 2020

Interview
Billy

“fetish has no race”. We talk to Leather Mister X about the Asian fetish scene.

“Sadly we still do have to fight for inclusivity, just to be part of the fetish community.”

August 7 2020

Interview
Max

“fetish has no gender”. We talk to Max Groen, formerly known as Joke about gender fluidity. Hello Max, can you give a little introduction of yourself?

“We are definitely a minority in the fetish community. But honestly, I don’t experience it in a negative way. Everyone I talk to in the scene is openminded and is ready to learn about the topic.”

juli 24 2020

Interview
Tris

"Fetish has no age" Meet one of the youngest leatherguys around. We talk to Tris about his fetish life at young age .

"For as far as I remember, I’ve always been attracted to leather. I started my collection as soon as I turned 18 and I slowly started to make contacts with guys through the Internet then I met some of them, created links and discovered some events."

juli 07 2020

Interview
Wim

Leatherman, husband, founder of Mister B. We talk to Wim Bos about living Fetish in different times.

"What I have learned in life is that love and understanding of everyone is a necessity. You should allow yourself that too. Everyone, straight/gay/trans/ fetish/thin/fat/black/white/young or old, however you are, is just as valuable and deserving of pride of his or her existence as he or she works on that. Others oughtn’t judge that but should accept everyone with respect. You are the measure of your existence."

June 30 2020

Interview
Leena

Folsom, Darklands, Mister Leather judge, Lady?! We talk to Leena about her fetish life.

"After some trips to Europe I was judging Mr Leather or Fetish competitions in Rome, Barcelona and Milan. My main topics are spreading the joy and pushing more diversity and tolerance to the fetish scene. I think I did something good, because I was awarded with a sash: Miss "titleholder" Best Friend Europe 2019 at Folsom Berlin. But I noticed soon, that a straight woman between gay men is still something strange."

June 09 2020

Interview
Dries Pup Spunk

Young, handsome, kinky, ... cancer?! We talk to Dries about his fetish life.

"I’ve grown a lot through all of this. I always like being different but in my teenage years I never really had the balls to act upon those feelings. Now I have a mohawk, have my first piercing, dress more unique/daring! I never cared what people thought of me but hearing from other people I looked great and “rock” a certain outfit really did make me push my limits."

May 26 2020

Interview
Allen Weavingcowboy

100% family man to his wife and kids. 100% member of his church. 100% leatherman. Meet Allen and his fetish life.

"If I ever argue with someone it is because I want them to work to being inclusive of all leather folk, not just the cool kids or the ones with the perfect bodies and perfect gear. As a person who was severely bullied as a kid, I know what it is like to be left out or shamed. I want no one to go through that stuff."

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